My personal opinion - its not. I think women are more complex & quite sure many would agree. We don’t tell men explicitly how we want them to react given a certain situation & expect them to figure it out themselves. We also expect them to be “sensitive” and “intelligent” enough to be able to comprehend our untold needs and wants. And when they are unable to do that, we start doubting their commitment, we accuse them of being not that “into us” And this is enough to press the panic buttons. We need to remember that we have the ‘power’ to change things, change the course of the river, the way we want! We also need to understand that MEN THINK DIFFERENTLY. Men need instructions, period. You tell them what you want and they will give it you, in all possibilities a lot more than that!
So girls, relax, take it easy! Don’t be mean to your guys, just be nice to them, give them time and they will come around for sure.
PS: would love to how you feel about this issue, so keep posting your comments.
2 comments:
Hmm,insightful.
I think you are rite bby. can't say it would be true for all the men(there are always some exceptions who make the case worse for us by setting these standards)but it hold true for most of us. i think the reason we need instructions is because women are SO complex. u think they want A because most of the time they want A, but on that particular they would want anything but A. Offf.. that's y guys, better to wait for instructions or try to get them say explicitly wat they want.
I really pray bby you keep this post of urs always in mind, we would fite bot kam then:)
bye, luv
Interesting .... the predicament of the metrosexual male has been neatly summed up. But in all seriousness....men dont need to be instructed as much as they need to understood... Just because you see a guy looking your way dont just assume that he's just interested in having you between the sheets...perhaps he was just admiring your dress or hairstyle. Any which way....girls I dont think are intentionally mean to their men. Its just one of those things, they do to test them (like the playing hard to get game)...Quite a luv guru aren't I. Any ways great job.... continue to the keep us men enlightened by regularly posting your thoughts on what women actually want.
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